Try it On Everything EFT Movie

July 9th, 2008

Finally,Try it on Everything the EFT movie we’ve all been waiting for is here.

Both heartwarming and informative, this feature length movie shows how ordinary people have received extraordinary relief and healing by using this simple technique. Some of the cast of The Secret are in the movie, too!

Unlike The Secret, however, emotional freedom technique is based on science. Brain scans taken before and after EFT sessions show a marked difference in the ratios of brain frequencies.

By making this movie available, the producers are attempting to reach countless people who otherwise would continue to suffer with various emotional and even physical conditions.

Try it on Everything is well worth a look — and even a second look.

Emotional Issues Found Behind Cigarette Cravings

March 17th, 2008

I’ve received numerous emails from interested persons since Gary Craig posted my short article on Using EFT for Cigarette Cravingsat his emofree.com web site.

I won’t repeat the article, because you can read it on the Emofree web site. What does interest me is the response it received from former and current smokers.  Emotional Freedom Technique has a big role to play in any addictive behavior — whether that is tobacco, food, alcohol,drugs, shopping, gambling and so forth.

Check out the article and subscribe to Gary’s newsletter. It’s fascinating reading.  

Using EFT Tapping to Counteract Negative Health Messages Around Obesity

March 11th, 2008

It’s difficult to read a newspaper or tune into the daily TV news without reading or hearing yet another dire warning about the health dangers associated with obesity. I’m expecting to see any day now that obesity is the cause of global warming, the rising crime rate and the high price of real estate in Vancouver.

I am not impressed with these endless warnings. I have to put this carefully, because I am not discounting the health concerns that surround obesity. I certainly recognize the health benefits to be realized when we take off the excess pounds.

 But!!!

I believe that we’re going a little over the top with the scare tactics.  Obesity has become the new public enemy and we’re gonna fight it, dammit!  

I see a problem with this. Because of my spiritual and philosophical beliefs, I believe that we attract that which we focus on.  Focusing on the occurrences of obesity will increase those numbers. Focusing on the related health dangers will increase the incidents of obesity related health problems.

 On the other hand, focusing on fitness and health will increase the occurrences of fitness and health.  I would love to see a newspaper headline that read, “60% of adults are within their ideal weight range,” rather than, “40% of adults are overweight.”  (I’m not claiming these are the correct percentages. I’m just using these as an example.)

Counteracting the Negative Messages

If you are overweight, I strongly suggest you use tools such as the Silva Method or EFT tapping to counteract these negative messages.

Take the pounds off, certainly, but do it by focusing on the positive, not the negative. By meditating or tapping on fitness, ideal weight, good health, etc., you will attract more of those things that you want.

You may want to do some EFT tapping to address the fears and concerns you have around health. “Even though I am worried that I will develop some horrible disease because of my weight, I deeply and completely accept myself.”   After several rounds of that,  proceed to tapping in the positive messages. “I now achieve my ideal body weight. I enjoy good health. I will always maintain a perfectly healthy body and mind.”

 And incidentally, if you’d like a little encouraging news for a change, my daily newspaper reported yesterday that when critically ill, fat patients have a better survival rate than slim people. The research was conducted by Dr. Folu Akinnusi, from the University of Buffalo’s Division of Pulmonary, Critical Care and Sleep Medicine. There are various theories as to why this is so.

Introductory Video to Emotional Freedom Technique

February 27th, 2008

This video shows you the basics of emotional  freedom technique tapping.  Someone pointed this video out to me when I was struggling with some issues. It made all the difference in the world.

Video to Emotional Freedom Technique

Using the Silva Method to Help Lose Weight

February 25th, 2008

The Silva Method has a lot to offer if you want to lose weight. First, I’ll explain what it is. To quote from the web site, “The Silva Method is a powerful, life-changing program developed over 50 years ago by Jose Silva.”  Originally, it was called Silva Mind Control but the name is now changed to Silva Method.

Based on scientific research, the Silva Method is a training program that I can only describe as a little like self hypnosis, a little like guided meditations, a little like spirituality, a little like the Law of Attraction and a little like good old fashioned positive thinking.

 The  Silva Method Explained

 In short, the training teaches you to reach a deep meditative state quickly and easily. By the end of this training, you can reach alpha level or theta level of brain waves simply by touching three fingers together and counting downwards from three to one. In that meditative state, you program or reprogram your brain to create the results you want.

With the Silva Method, you can relax quickly, fall asleep without the use of sleep aids, awaken at the time you want without use of an alarm clock,  improve your memory, use dreams and other methods to solve problems, change behaviors or break habits, manage or remove pain instantly, increase intuition, develop ESP abilities and heal physical conditions that are troubling you. I have personally had some remarkable health - related results from the Silva Method. I have described those experiences at How to Lose Weight Quickly with the Silva Method

Using the Silva Method to Lose Weight

Among the many other benefits you can expect from the Silva Methods is the ability to “program your mind” to develop an eating pattern that achieves your weight goals, whatever they may be. Personally, I created a Silva Method program to help me achieve my desired weight and maintain it — and to enjoy the healthy, nutritious foods that I now eat.

Availability

The Silva Method is available through a home study course or through live workshops if there is a trainer in your area. Either one works well although I personally prefer the live workshops. Once you have attended a live workshop, you can attend and re-attend as many times as you want for a small fee. If you’re interested in learning more, the Silva Method web site offers a free ebook and audio file to get you started.

I took the Silva Method for the first time in the seventies. I was young at the time and didn’t fully appreciate its power. I re-took the course a year ago. I can now say that I have a complete commitment to practice this amazing method for the rest of my life.

I can’t speak highly enough of all the Silva Method  has done for me, both as an aid to lose weight and for other things as well. If anyone is serious about creating lasting and deep changes, I suggest you give it a try. 

 

This EFT Script Overcomes Resistance to Losing Weight

February 22nd, 2008

Do you need to lose weight but just can’t seem to take the first step? EFT tapping is a wonderful tool to help you overcome whatever excuses you have for delaying the inevitable if you just can’t force yourself to do it. 

Let’s say your favorite excuse is, “Everybody in my family is overweight.”

Why not tap that away?

Before starting any tapping session, be sure you have a drink of water. You brain works very hard during a tapping session and it requires hydration.  Drink water periodically during your tapping rounds as well.

Begin tapping, going around the tapping points that you typically use.

 The following script is a good one. It gradually takes you through your resistance. Repeat as often as needed, and use on every excuse that comes to mind.

The EFT Script for Overcoming Diet Resistance

Even though I can’t lose weight because everybody in my family is overweight, I deeply and completely accept myself.”  Done three times.

I can’t lose weight.  It’s in my family. We’re all overweight. There is nothing I can do about it.  You can’t fight your genes. It’s not my fault. I have no control over this. I’m helpless against my family background. I’m doomed to be overweight just like mom or dad. There’s nothing I can do. It’s out of my hands. There’s no point even starting a diet. I don’t even want to lose weight. I want to be fat. I like being fat. It’s my destiny. Nobody is going to make me lose weight  Nobody is going to control me. I won’t give in to anybody. I’ll stay as fat as I want. It’s my business anyway.

Of course, I can see some advantages to losing weight. It might be worth considering some  day. Not today though. Not for a very long time. Maybe sometime I might consider losing weight. I might be okay to look slim and fit. I might like how I feel when I’m slender. I’d probably feel better. My partner would like it. My sex life might improve. My health would be better.

Maybe its worth thinking about losing weight. Maybe I might think about going on a diet. I think I might. I might do it. I might really get serious about this. I’m gong to do it Yes I am. I’m going to start losing weight right away. I want to do this.

It’s my decision. I’m in control here. I intend to have a slim, fit healthy body. I deserve to be healthy and fit. I’m doing it now. I’m doing it. I’m ready now. I can do this thing and I will do it. And that’s the way its going to be.

This is just one of the many ways that EFT tapping can help to promote weight loss.

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No Motivation to Lose Weight? Try EFT Tapping

February 21st, 2008

One of the most challenging aspects of going on a diet (or making a lifestyle change) is overcoming the initial resistance and apathy.

You know you need to lose weight. You know your need to. You know the quality of your life will improve if you rid yourself of the unwanted pounds.

Maybe every week you vow that you’ll start on Monday. But when Monday comes, the diet doesn’t happen.

Maybe you don’t even vow to start on Monday. Maybe you’ve just given up and resigned yourself to being overweight.

 There is some good news for you. EFT tapping will remove this resistance easily and fairly quickly.

First, make a list of all the reasons why you do not take action.

A Few Popular Excuses for Avoiding Losing Weight

You may be familiar with some of the following:

    I hate thinking about changing my eatingI hate giving in to all the people who are nagging me to lose weightIt’s no use anyway. I always gain it backWhat’s the point? I’m happy the way I am.I don’t believe obesity is as dangerous as they say.

    If I lose weight, I’ll have to get a new wardrobe and I can’t afford it

    I want to but I just haven’t got the will power

    Food is the best thing in my life and I don’t want to give it up

    I’m just a big loser anyway

    People should appreciate me for myself and not my size

    I can’t lose weight. It’s genetic

    All of my family members are overweight.

    My friends are overweight and they won’t chum with me if I lose weight

    I like eating foods full of fat and sugar

    I hate exercise

    I’ll start after Christmas, my birthday, my vacation, etc.

    I’m under too much stress

    I don’t have time to plan healhy meals

    I have to eat in restaurants a lot and you can’t lose weight that way

    It’s a side effect of my medication

    Healthy food costs too much

    I’d have to prepare separate meals for my family

    Everybody gains weight after menopause

    Everybody gains weight after having a baby

    I sit at a desk all day. I can’t get any exercise

    Everybody with my ethnic background eats a lot

    People tempt me to overeat

    I don’t process carbohydrates properly

    My metabolism is too slow

    etc.

Once you have identified your own excuses, begin doing EFT tapping on each one of them.

Top Ten Ways for Using EFT to Lose Weight

February 20th, 2008

EFT tapping (emotional freedom technique) is a huge benefit to anyone wanting to lose weight or to maintain a weight loss. 

 EFT is a component of the new Energy Psychology. It’s simple to do, easy to learn, has no known side effects, and its amazingly effective. Essentially, you tap your fingers on various acupuncture points while focusing on an emotion or condition you want to change.  The process redirects electromagnetic energies associated with emotion, behaviours, physical health and well-being.

If you’ve never done EFT tapping before, it sounds, looks and feels very strange. However, as I said earlier, its enormously powerful. And, the good news is that you don’t have to believe in EFT for it to work. Your belief is unimportant. The healing happens at an energy level. You will believe in it after you experience the results — and in a lot of cases, you will achieve results that eluded you through the more traditional approaches.

Here are ten tips for using EFT to lose weight and keep it off.

 1. EFT Tapping to Reduce Food Cravings.

Do several rounds of tapping to reduce food cravings. “Even though I crave this chocolate cake…”  After some rounds of tapping, the craving for the cake is gone.

 2. EFT Tapping for Emotional Eating

Many overweight people are emotional eaters.  When you feel upset, you eat. When you feel angry, you eat. When you feel anxious.,  you eat.  By tapping directly on the emotion you are feeling, you remove this uncomfortable emotion and the desire to overeat goes away along with it.

 Suppose you have anxiety over money matters. Your anxiety drives you to eat food high in fats, sugars and starches. EFT tapping removes the anxiety, and that has two benefits. Not only have you removed the desire to overeat, but without this worry and fear, you’re in a better frame of mind to find a solution to the money situation.

“Even though I am so worried about paying my bills this month…. ”

3. EFT Tapping for Vague Discontent

Sometimes you just feel unhappy, irritable and discontented for no good reason. This erodes your motivation to eat sensibly. You just don’t give a darn.  Even in this situation, EFT is the answer. “Even though I’m feeling “blah” and don’t know why…. ”

 5.  EFT Tapping to Remove Resistance to Starting a Diet

Sometimes you put off starting a diet even though you really want to be rid of the excess weight. Going on a diet means a change of lifestyle that seems uncomfortable.  You are keenly aware of “what you will be giving up.” You anticipate great hunger. You dislike eating fruits and vegetables. You don’t want to exercise.  EFT tapping helps you overcome this resistance. You may have to tap persistently for a few days or longer before you are clear about your commitment. “Even though I don’t want to start a diet…”

6. EFT Tapping to Improve Self Esteem

Obesity leads to self hatred and lowered self esteem. Self hatred does not motivate you to diet and improve your life. The lower your self esteem, the harder it will be for you to make a commitment to health and fitness. Use EFT regularly to remove self hatred related to weight issues and self hatred related to anything else. ‘Even though I feel badly about myself …”

7. EFT Tapping to Remove Resistance to Exercise

Dislike exercise? What excuses do you come up with to avoid exercising regularly? Identify whichever one you are using today, and tap, “Even though I don’t want to exercise because ….”   The resistance will reduce after a few rounds of tapping.

8.  EFT Tapping to Prepare for Dangerous Eating Situations

Worried about losing control of your eating at the birthday party or other social activity? Tap in confidence and commitment before you go. “Even though I am afraid of losing control of my eating tonight…”

9. EFT Tapping to Deal with Plateaus

Plateaus are discouraging. You’re doing everything right and the scales won’t budge. Instead of giving up and ordering a pizza, do some EFT tapping. “Even though I’m discouraged because I haven’t lost weight for two weeks…”

10. EFT Tapping to Reinforce Positive Messages

Every day, do a few rounds of tapping to reinforce your commitment to your new lifestyle.  Think of all the positive lifestyle messages you want to strengthen, then go through several rounds of tapping while saying them aloud. eg  “I intend a slim, fit, healthy body.”

There you have it. My Top Ten ways to use EFT to lose weight  

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Try EFT and The Silva Method to Stop Yo Yo Dieting

February 19th, 2008

Anyone who struggles with obesity in our fat-phobic culture understands what happens to the self worth when the scales go up.

The Weight Loss Cycle

First, you go on a diet.  You lose weight. Perhaps you lose enough weight that people  complement you. Maybe you even reach your goal.

You feel great about yourself. You look good. People give you  positive feedback. Your physician is ecstatic. You may even notice that strangers treat you better than when you were overweight.

Life is great.

 The Weight Gain Cycle

 Then something happens. Perhaps quickly, or perhaps slowly, you gravitate back to your old eating habits. You exercise less, or perhaps not at all.

The excuses return.

  • I’m stressed out.
  • The weather’s depressing me.
  • It’s my birthday.
  • It’s Christmas, Valentine’s Day, Halloween, etc.
  • I got a two-for-one coupon from MacDonalds
  • My leg hurts
  • etc.

You know you’re on a slippery slope.  You resolve to “get back on track.” Starting tomorrow.

But when tomorrow comes, you can’t muster up whatever it takes to stop the dangerous spiral. As time passes, the weight returns. Regularly, you resolve to do something about it. But you seem completely, totally unable to follow through.

Your self esteem plummets. You begin to hate yourself for letting this happen. The more you hate yourself, the less motivation you have to try to get the weight off.

Eventually, you gain back all of the lost weight, and perhaps even extra pounds on top of it.  Then one day, your motivation returns. You start taking the weight off once again and your self esteem rises accordingly.

 Then the whole thing repeats.

 Weight Off– High Self Esteem — Weight Loss  — Low Self Esteem — Weight Off - High Self Esteem — Weight Gain — Low Self Esteem …

And here’s the result of this vicious circle. Every time you regain the weight, your self esteem hits a new low. When you lose the weight, your self esteem goes up accordingly, but the ‘high point’ gets lower each time you complete the cycle.

In time, even your highest period of self esteem isn’t that high any more.  And your motivation to lose the weight drops accordingly. What’s the use?

Breaking the Vicious Circle

There is good news about this. I discovered the solution. I reduced my weight by more than seventy pounds and I am keeping it off.

You can stop this cycle dead in its tracks, at any point, by using a combination of the Silva Method and EFT (emotional freedom technique).  It worked miracles for me. Why not give it a try?

 

Want to know how to Lose Weight Quickly? Diets DO WORK

February 16th, 2008

Does this sound familiar?  You tell somebody you are going on a diet to lose weight. Immediately, before the last word is out of your mouth, somebody will burst forth with an  emphatic statement that goes something like this:

“Diets DON”T WORK!  You gain the weight back after a diet.”

This statement is inevitable. Its as inevitable as the fact that its going to rain in Vancouver, where I live. In case you don’t know, Vancouver is located in a rain forest. Locals call it “Raincouver.”

 So yes, somebody will hang the “Diets don’t work” statement on you within seconds and everybody else present will chime in to agree.  Faster than you can say Weight Watchers,  people will have volunteered their insights as to  how to lose weight quickly. This sage information will usually include the news that you need to eat different foods, you need to eat small quantities of these foods, and you need to get exercise.

Somebody, generally a young person with a naturally fast metabolism, will advise you that cutting back on desserts and potatoes and going for a walk every day is all that’s necessary.  She (its always a she) did that and dropped ten pounds without even thinking about it.

Wonderful.

 First, let me say that for some lucky people, giving up desserts and walking a bit every day really does burn off the fat. I envy these people. I would greatly love to count myself among their numbers.

But I am not like them.

My metabolism does not burn fuel at such a high speed. I do not lose weight unless I restrict my food intake to about 1200 calories a day, give or take, and add cardio exercise to get the metabolism boosted up. Most people who have a serious and chronic weight problem are in the same boat as I am. The cut back a little and walk to the corner store instead of driving won’t do a damned thing for them in terms of weight loss.

Now let’s go back to the wise people who feel compelled to tell us that diets don’t work.  You don’t need to ask them what does work, because they’ll tell you without you needing to ask. Their advice: You need to eat less food, eat different food and get exercise.

A Diet by Another Name is Still a Diet

Hmmm. Let’s look at this carefully. Eat less food. Eat different food. Get exercise.

Do you know what that describes?  Here’s what it describes. It describes a DIET PLAN.

Check out any of the major weight loss centers and diet plans and that is exactly what you find. They all advocate eating small quantities of healthy food and combing it with exercise. That’s the approach that Nutrisystem, Jenny Craig, Weight Watchers and probably a bunch of others take.

You could also go to a nutritionist and get an eating plan that will promote weight loss. This will involve eating small quantities of healthy foods. The nutritionist will tell you to exercise. If your physician agrees, you can consult a fitness trainer and get a routine set up that suits your lifestyle.  Here again, notice what you’re doing. Eating less and moving more.  A .. dare I say it, DIET?

So, the good folks who assure you that diets don’t work are actually recommending a lifestyle plan that is, in fact, a DIET!  Isn’t that hilarious?  Point it out to them if you’re brave, but don’t expect very many to see the humour the way you and I do.

Thumbs Down to Fad Diets

 Now I should point out that I agree with the nay-sayers if you are talking about fad diets that restrict calories to a very low daily level or ask you to eat only certain foods. You will lose weight with these fad diets, but you do it at the expense of your health.  You are likely to be burning muscle instead of fat and that’s not a good thing.

Now let’s move on to the rest of the dire warning. The Diets Don’t Work People will tell you that you regain the weight afterwards.

Yes. Chances are, that is exactly what happens. However, almost everyone who loses weight, regardless of how it comes off, regains it. I don’t know the percentage, but I think I have read that its something like 90%. Even people who have had the gastro bypass surgery are prone to regain again. It’s not the diet that causes the regain afterwards. It’s the fact that it’s almost impossible for most of us to continue eating the small quantities of food that allows us to maintain our weight loss.

Is it Your Will Power?

Some call this a lack of will power, to which I say Bull Durham.

Anybody who has stuck to a diet long enough to lose 30, 40, 50, 60 pounds or more has will power to burn.

The real problem is rooted in our unconscious mind. Until that problem is addressed, we’ll continue to regain the weight and no amount of shaming, scolding, ridiculing or appealing to our common sense will help.

But there is help — something that really works. And that’s what this blog and the accompanying web site,  How to Lose Weight Quickly is all about.

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